The “Honesty Heart” Exercise
Have each family member draw a big heart on a piece of paper and write the word “honesty” in the center. Then, let them add words around it, like “trust,” “truth,” and “God’s love.” Explain that honesty strengthens our hearts and our relationships, helping kids visualize how telling the truth builds trust.
Read the Story of Ananias and Sapphira
Tell the story of Ananias and Sapphira (Acts 5:1-11) in a kid-friendly way. Discuss why God values honesty and the consequences of lying. It’s important for kids to know that while God’s love is infinite, honesty is an important part of our commitment to Him and to each other.
Practice “Truth or Fib” Games
Play a simple game where family members take turns saying statements about themselves, and the others guess if it’s a truth or a fib. Afterward, discuss why telling the truth builds trust, showing kids that honesty feels better than even the smallest fib.
Create a Family “Honesty Pledge”
Write a family pledge about always speaking the truth and helping each other stay honest. Have everyone sign it, then display it where everyone can see. Pa Kola could emphasize that the pledge is a family promise to live in God’s truth, together.
Memorize Proverbs 12:19 Together
Memorize Proverbs 12:19 (“Truthful lips endure forever, but a lying tongue lasts only a moment”) or Philippians 4:8 (“Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things) as a family. Make up hand motions to go along with the verse, making it easy to remember. Kids will enjoy the movements and the powerful message about the lasting impact of truthfulness.
Create “Honesty Heroes”
Tell your kids about people in the Bible who were known for their honesty, like Daniel or Joseph. Encourage them to draw a “hero” badge for these biblical figures, reminding them that honesty takes courage and makes us strong, just like God’s followers.
Introduce the “Honesty Reflection Jar”
Place a jar in a common area where kids can drop notes about moments when they chose to be honest, even when it was hard. Each week, read through the notes as a family, celebrating these “honesty wins” together. After reading them, share a quick prayer, thanking God for the strength to be truthful.
Honesty is more than a habit; it’s a lifelong commitment to God and others that shapes us into reliable, trustworthy people. As you practice these activities, remember that each step you take towards honesty is a step closer to a heart that reflects God’s love. Embrace these moments as a family, knowing that your dedication to truth sets a firm foundation for your children’s faith journey.
